Preparation for trip also take a lot of time. Trip to Europe to visit a future husband takes a lot of energy.

"Good morning dear Alfonso! Best wishes for a wonderful productive and successful day! Once again I want to thank you for the trust and our friendship for many years to come! Everything will be fine. Life does not end tomorrow, but relationships develop step by step. Trust is born as love, too, with time and a pleasant attitude to each other! Today I would like to ask you to respect my request for payment for my services. Do not misunderstand me! We live in a terrible time, a war, a holocaust in everything, stress, and in this situation we must not lose the good and human attitude to each other! Believe me, this is a lot of work, work with feelings. I have to go to  her mother several times to assure her that everything is legal and not dangerous, that everything is trustworthy! This takes time and gas costs. Then we will go by bus. We need expenses for food and toilet, coffee, water and force majeure, all of a sudden the bus breaks down, all the same a long journey. Payment for a taxi in the cities of residence, because she and I need to get to the bus station somehow. And most importantly, I won't be home for a long time. I also need to take care of my family and they expect me to bring money for us to live.. Considering the complexity of the situation, I ask for your generosity, send me money for my work! Appreciate my work, because I spend a lot of preparatory questions and this will also take a lot of effort and time. Thank you for appreciating my work! I am pleased that you understand how not easy it is to survive in a war and keep the desire to work, create and love! With best wishes," Elena