"Dear, I want to tell you something in total sincerity: if you no longer want to come, if you are not convinced you are coming, if you have suddenly changed your mind, if you are no longer sure, if you are worried, ... if I I give you all this discomfort, so I advise you not to come to me. I care that you are happy, that you are well. If, on the other hand, you are not happy to come to my house, despite my sincere hospitality, I prefer, in spite of myself, but only and exclusively for your own good, that you make a different choice. I want you to be happy always. Where, with whom, how I don't care at all: I just need to know that you are serene and happy. I have read that you are worried and I am very sorry because I would like exactly the opposite for you. Make the choice that you feel is most appropriate and right for you. Tomorrow, as promised . And if you no longer come to me, I will delete your mobile number, but against my will, even if I have always behaved well with you, and therefore I have a clear conscience.
Thank you
Good night"