15:43 His Future Wife is from Ukraine. Tom Is Sure | |
 Hi Luda, I hope you are doing well and that things are okay for you and friends of yours affected by the war. I know it's a tremendous ongoing challenge.
Say, I wanted to write to you about perhaps seeking your services again. I'm sorry to say that things seem to have gone wrong with Lina. After flying her to Mexico, helping her across the border, and assistiing her a little monetarily and a lot with moral support, it seems that she is not attracted enough to me to have a romantic relationship. Apparently she loves the person I am, but is not physically attracted enough. I also have the sense that she is seeing someone else here, and I'm guessing someone who she is physically attracted to. So sadly I'm about to disconnect emotionally. I was trying to connect to her with my heart and also to her daughter (who I think really likes me), and had envisioned continuing to be a hero for them and to possibly even rebuild a family together. But it's out of my control, and I am feeling a lack of trust in her now given the likelihood of her seeing another guy while claiming fervently that she was not. I appreciate her trying to be attracted to me, but my guess is she was physically involved with this other guy with trying to cultivate things with me and that she got emotionally/physically attached to him first. Sorry for the long story. Anyway, I don't know if it even makes any sense at all to look for another Ukrainian partner, especially when they may be fleeing from the war and so stressed about how they will start their new life. It puts some extraordinary pressures on people and they may have to act interested in you or ask for considerable financial support, even though their feelings don't match their requests or actions. Nevertheless, I wanted to ask you if you know of any pure hearted (as close as one can get) and attractive Ukrainian gals who have left the country or are about to that I might really be an okay fit for? Are there some new ones in Western or Eastern Europe outside the Ukraine that you might send me brief descriptions and photos of? It looks like I'll have a chance for some brief travel over the July 1-8 timeframe and if I begin correspondence with some now, I might be able to coordinate a couple meetings. Also, if there are some adventurous gals who are truly promising, I could fly them to Mexico near San Diego as I did with Lina and spend some time with them there. That would be a costly involvement and perhaps even more so if things go awry emotionally again, but if there's a resonable chance of a love connection, I'd do it. What do you think Luda? Yours Truly Tom
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