Luba, you’re a mature, smart woman. You don’t have to convince Julia to come to me. You gave her a great opportunity : you made a man who would make her happy fall in love. If she, who has the right to decide, thinks that man is too little for her, that she deserves much more, it is right that she goes her way. A relationship is an exchange of mutual opportunities: the Eastern woman gives to Italian man beauty, youth and fidelity. Italian man gives Ukrainian woman a beautiful home, economic security, character maturity. Otherwise Italian man chooses older Italian woman than Julia and Karolina, but with a nice house, good job, new car, money in the bank. Or as I have been doing for years, I continue to have stories of  love and friendship with many Italian women who are divorced, but I do not want to have in my house. In life it is not possible to have everything. You have done the maximum for Julia and in the past for Karolina. They did not heed your advice, but it is right that they choose their own lives.