I want , also , to approach another item : personnally , I do not have and that do not need castles and helicopters , or aesthetic perfection to have feelings for a woman , since it is her presence , and her way to be , which make me happy to have her next and care about her .  Other Improvements can come just step by step , and not after one day, but they cannot change feelings for each other . A beloved brings serenity , and this what I look for